There
are those who say knowledge plus effort equals change. In some respects this
is true. But I firmly believe that for truly lasting change, the most
important factor is missing in this equation. For true lasting change, we
must put God into the process or equation. Unfortunately, all too often, we
fail to do this.
Many times as we struggle through life's trials, we try to do it alone. Oh,
sure, when we are in a particularly desperate situation we utter a prayer
which sounds like, "God, get me out of this mess, and I promise to change."
The situation passes, and our lives continue unchanged.
Even in this organization, we tend to leave God out of the equation. In all
the research done and all the testimonials given about changing the patterns
of destruction, one element is constant. We must accept the reality of, and
depend completely upon, a Supreme Being. For my purpose, I choose this
Being, God. I believe in God and in His Son, Jesus Christ.
Drawing from my personal experience I have noticed a pattern. When I pray
and ask for help, try to live as I should, and put forth a sincere effort to
change, the temptations seem greater. If I don't pray, then the temptations
seem easier to bear. The operative word here is "seem." The temptations seem
easier to bear because there is less guilt when I fall. This can start a
negative cycle. In order to break that cycle we must first recognize the
situation. This recognition must be true and complete. We cannot try to
white-wash the facts or look at them through "rose colored glasses."
It is at this point that we must bring God back into our lives. We must go
before Him and beg for help. He will help us, but only if we are truly
willing to follow Him. We must also ask ourselves if we truly believe in
Jesus Christ and believe that the atonement can be applied to each of us. If
the answer is no, then dedicated research and prayer must follow. A
conversion to this knowledge, just as real as anyone investigating the
Church, must take place .
To begin this research, start with the scriptures. Also, read what has been
written about the Savior, His life, and especially the atonement. Then begin
applying the atonement in your life. The atonement is for everyone. Even if
you feel like the most wretched creature to have ever lived, the atonement
can work for you. In order for it to take place, however, we must do
everything we can do. God does not ask that we do more than that, but He
does require us to do all we can do. When we are at this point, the
cleansing blood of Christ can be applied in our lives. This is not to be
confused with the belief of some that all we must do is accept Christ and we
will be saved. We must continually do all that we can do. In no way do I
suggest that it will be easy. There is no quick fix. It is constant,
continual work. When the temptations seem so great that you cannot possibly
hold out, surrender it to God. Tell Him that you do not have the power to
withstand your trial. Give Him the opportunity to use His power to help you.
In other words, surrender yourself to Him.
Only in this way can the "great change" spoken of by King Benjamin take
place in our lives. We will no longer desire to do that which is wrong, but
to do good continually. For this to happen the equation cannot be KNOWLEDGE
+ EFFORT = CHANGE, but must be GOD + KNOWLEDGE + EFFORT = CHANGE. In order
to succeed, we must put God back into the equation.
(Originally published in Journey, Volume 1, Number 6,
1991, pages 1-2.)
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